Let's just say it at once presents a one-sided view of the story and, by their actions, sums up the real story better than anything I could say.
Existen aves que cruzan el pantano y no se manchan...
So glad to be done.
Moving on...
Let's just say it at once presents a one-sided view of the story and, by their actions, sums up the real story better than anything I could say.
Existen aves que cruzan el pantano y no se manchan...
So glad to be done.
Moving on...
The tough part is finding someone like this who is already local (Olympia, Lacey, Tumwater). Although I have looked farther away in the past, and even given it a good try, it's very difficult to build a real relationship unless you are close to each other.
It is also difficult to find a real relationship in online dating sites, where 85% of the women in their late 30s are "never married" and for about half of those, in my experience, narcissism is the main reason why.
Obviously, not everyone will match my wish list above, but I am hopeful that someday someone will.
At night there are millions of galaxies, and in sunlight
the beauty of friends dancing at a wedding."
You ask the embryo why he, or she, stays cooped up
in the dark with eyes closed.
Listen to the answer.
There is no "other world."
I only know what I've experienced.
You must be hallucinating.
Rumi (1207-1273)
From the poem "Wean Yourself," in The Essential Rumi, as translated by Coleman Barks
One of the main ones being my great sadness at running into this again, when I least expected it, and not being able to really do anything about it, though I so much wish that I could. People can change, and you can help them change, but this time it is so much and so entrenched it just seems hopeless. If I thought I could do it for her, I would. She has so much else going for her, and I know deep down this only masks her unhappiness, and even emptiness, and I wouldn't wish either of those things on anybody. But for her life to be truly happy for a change, she would have to understand what was keeping her from happiness, be brave enough to admit it to herself, and open up her heart and her mind to receive help and to consider new possibilities. The "Bonds That Make Us Free" book would be a good start, but I think it would take more than that. Just so sad, for me and especially for her.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcissistic_personality_disorder
My best wishes for your future happiness. Truly.